The Silent Majority: Lesbians and Poverty
In the final part of the social issues series Victoria A. Brownworth asks: Why are lesbians falling below the poverty line in such alarming numbers?
Amy Nelson doesn’t have enough money to pay this month’s rent and her health insurance, but she’s a diabetic so the choice is obvious.
She says she can’t take the stress of making these choices much longer.
Nelson was laid off nearly a year ago from her job as a graphic designer and has been on unemployment ever since, supplementing the payments with freelance work. At 28, she has a bachelor of fine arts degree and has taken courses toward her master’s, but Nelson notes that she is one of “a gazillion artists looking for work in a really sucky economy where there are zero options.”
“When I was in college, I worked as a waitress,” Nelson explains. “I thought when I was laid off that I could get a waitressing job until I found another design job. But in this recession, that’s what everyone thinks. I keep hearing that things are better, but they aren’t for me and most of the people I know. My girlfriend is out of work. My two best friends are out of work. My mother is sick and out of work. We are all officially poor, now. Not ‘we’re still in school’ poor but ‘grown-up, what the fuck are we going to do now’ poor.”
The recession has hit harder than many Americans realize. A Pew study released May 30 further expanded on what Nelson and millions of other Americans have experienced first-hand: Over half of all working age adults in the U.S. have experienced “work hardships,” either in the form of actual job loss, like Nelson, or pay cuts, involuntary reduction in hours or change in job status. According to the Pew results, this recession is unlike others because the downturn has impacted so many people for such an extended period. Nearly one-third of all Americans–32 percent–have been unemployed at one time or another during the recession.
Hunger or “food insufficiency” is a steadily growing problem, “We go to the food bank every week,” Nelson explains. “You cannot imagine the level of embarrassment that goes with that. I mean we went to college, we had good jobs. We’re young. We should be able to climb out of this and we can’t. I’m afraid we’ll be stuck like this forever.”
The recession has meant more people are living on the edge financially and for women, that means poverty looms. For lesbians who are already marginalized by society, that edge is exceedingly sharp and disallows for anything to go wrong. Lesbians often have few support systems, or, like Nelson, their supports aren’t a buffer because those people too are experiencing the same dire circumstances.
It wasn’t the recession, but a rare degenerative eye disease that made Deborah Peifer, who lives just outside San Francisco, unemployed and poor. Now legally blind, she’s on disability in what is supposed to be the best state in the nation in which to be either disabled or poor. But the recession has hit California hard, and the state has legislated against the poor first, the rich last.
“If you are a Californian,” Peifer explains, “and you buy a yacht out of state, you can bring it back home and not pay a penny of sales tax. Medi-Cal [the California version of Medicaid] is being stripped not just to the bone, but to the marrow, but the yacht buyers’ wallets are protected. When I broke a tooth a while back, I called my case worker, and she explained that Medi-Cal will only pay for extraction, even when the tooth is repairable. It didn’t matter though, because only two dentists in the entire county accepted Medi-Cal, and she recommended against both of them because of all the complaints.”
The sales tax on one yacht would have paid not just for Peifer’s tooth to be repaired, but for more than 100 other poor lesbians to have their teeth repaired.
The choices lesbians living in poverty are forced to make are often, as in Peifer’s case, literally painful. Nelson has had diabetes since childhood. She has to have health insurance to pay for doctor’s visits, insulin and other checks on her health. But with a monthly income of just over $1,000 from unemployment, she may meet the standard for poverty, but in her case she still has too much income to qualify for Medicaid in Pennsylvania. So like many lesbians in poverty, she has to choose between rent and health care, health care and food, food and clothing, clothing and utilities.
Statistics on women and poverty are startling.
Over half of the nearly 40 million Americans living in poverty are women. After having fallen almost every year from the 1960s through the 1990s, the poverty rate has risen steadily since 2000 and is now just under 14 percent of the population, according to both the U.S. Census and the Department of Health and Human Services.
The federal poverty threshold is $10,830 for an individual under 65. That does not include public housing allotments, Medicaid or food stamps. That is less than $1,000 a month. For everything.
As shockingly low as the amount deemed “poverty threshold” by the government is, the statistics on who is at that poverty threshold are stunning.
Only a quarter of women in poverty over 18 are single mothers, yet this is the most widely disseminated theory on women in poverty–that poor women are overwhelmingly single mothers. Meanwhile, over half of all American women living below the federal poverty line–54 percent–are single with no dependent children.
How many of those single women are lesbians?
Since the U.S. Census refuses to track lesbians and gay men as either gender subsets or minorities, lesbian poverty can’t be charted the same way the poverty of other minority groups is charted. Lesbian poverty is recorded either anecdotally or extrapolated from the stats on women.
Those stats are disturbing. More women than men are poor in all racial subsets.In 2007, 13.8 percent of females were poor compared to 11.1 percent of men.
But why are all women poorer than all men?
In developing countries women are most likely to be poor because of their social and class status–or lack thereof are most likely to be illiterate, which is the leading precursor to poverty, according to the U.N. Status Report on Women. Lack of education means to low-paying jobs or no jobs at all.
In the U.S. where the majority of American women are at least functionally literate and the ratio of women to men in college is nearly 50-50, the root of female poverty might seem more nuanced and yet the statistics all point to gender discrimination as the root of female poverty. Factor in the impact of homophobia for lesbians, and lesbians are more likely to be poor even than their heterosexual peers.
According to the Center for American Progress, women are “segregated into low-paying jobs” like teaching, social work, nursing, child care, cleaning and waitressing–the so-called “pink collar” jobs. According to the DHHS, more than half of all working women in the U.S. work in these specific jobs, the median income for which is just over $27,000.
But even in jobs that require college degrees, women are less likely to be paid equitably. The federal government statistics on what women are paid put women’s work–all full-time work–at 77 percent of what men make. So if a man makes $50,000 for a job, a woman makes $38,500. And if a man makes $25,000, a woman makes $19,000. Women are always closer to poverty than men, simply because of the inequities of gender.
Other factors for lesbians in poverty include the number of young lesbians forced out of their families of origin. These young women start out at an economic disadvantage that may never be bridged. Homelessness impacts queers under 25 at a rate nearly ten times that of their heterosexual peers.
Lesbian activist Jeanne Cordova notes that butch lesbians have more difficulty finding jobs because of their looks, and thus are also more likely to fall into poverty. In her award-winning book Stone Butch Blues, writer Leslie Feinberg, who experienced such discrimination herself, charted the difficulties this presents for many butch lesbians.
Peifer, who spent years as a theater and book critic before her blindness made the work impossible, articulates how oppressive poverty can be. “Being poor means you can never make a mistake,” she explains. “You can't try a new brand of shoes, because if it turns out they hurt, you still have to wear them no matter the discomfort. You are at the mercy of every person who is happy to help, but only on his or her terms, and somehow what they decide you need is never what you actually do need.”
Some lesbians feel the media image promoted by celebrity-driven stories of wealthy actors and entertainers gives the impression that all queers–lesbians included–are rich, like Melissa Etheridge, Ellen Degeneres and Rosie O’Donnell.
Jan Lightfoot Lane, founder of Lesbians of Poverty in rural Hinckley, Maine explained, “We formed as Lesbians of Poverty in May 1999, with the aim to undo the lies of the political right and the myth that ‘all gays are affluent.’ We are not. Lesbians of Poverty welcomes all people–formerly poor as well as currently poor and poor people will have the loudest voice.”
A study by the Williams Institute at UCLA in May 2009 of queer couples showed that being coupled did not improve the standard of living for lesbians. Lee Badgett, an economist at the University of Massachusetts who co-authored the study, used data from the 2002 federal National Survey of Family Growth and the 2003 and 2005 California Health Interview surveys. She wrote that just acknowledging that lesbian couples struggle with poverty was itself a finding that needed to be addressed and that the findings show that lesbians and gay men as a wealthy elite is indeed a fallacy.
All the statistics add up to one clear picture: There are myriad obstacles for women/lesbians in getting out of poverty. Economic security is dependent on laws against discrimination being enforced, like the Equal Pay Act and the Lily Ledbetter Fair Pay Act. Homophobia in the workplace and in housing must be addressed if lesbians are to be protected and given some measure of economic security. Federal and local statutes for the poverty threshold must be increased to relate more reasonably with the increases in the standard of living.
“No one wants to be poor,” Nelson says, stating what seems obvious. “But being poor makes you hidden. It’s a whole other closet we have to climb out of.”
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The Republicans launched an all out war against the LGBT community and beauty challenged people that began in 1980. This is ironic because they are the most beauty challenged hypocritical political party in the US (Mitt Romney excepted). Why do you think so many of their offspring become Democrats and/or gay?
The first comment is the perfect example of why lesbians become poor. Blame the Republicans, divide, marginalize, victim culture, major in wymmins studies, spend thousands of dollars on IVF treatments you can't afford, etc. Unless we work hard and lose the victim mentality that liberals are so keen to instill in the entire nation, this trend will continue. Stop being niche, stop feeling sorry for yourself, and start getting real.
You can't even keep your comment on-topic. Why would someone hire you? You embody the "angry lesbian" stereotype - which in your case, unfortunately, rings true.
These statistics are just staggering! Since the 70's ERA campaign, treatment of women have never changed. Still underpaid. I can attest to that as even a clerk. I got paid $1 less than the male clerk in my same area! "He has a family" they said. Well, I have to pay rent, utilities, auto insurance too. Then I got a g/f. She was a worse burden. Wouldn't work.
When I was laid off, I went to SS and I didn't qualify for welfare or medicaid but I could get food stamps. Food stamps don't pay rent. I went to a comm. college on my GI bill and was paid, which helped some. Even had to choose which one to buy--napkins or paper towel or toilet paper. Toilet paper. I had no phone so a potential employer couldn't call me for work. No cable just antenna. Eventually I couldn't pay electric. A friend showed me how to rig it. I would only use the electricity at night since the electric company was off the clock. Kept things in the fridge cold at least. Then I wouldn't have enough for gas. I would use the change from the food stamps. Or walk, or hitch a ride. Once I had some money for gas but the car ran out so we had to push the car! Just 2 little young ladies heaving that thing up a small hill and over tracks. I put up with the lazy, childlike g/f for a little. She wouldn't leave. By now I had to walk to the mission to eat. Disgusting!! Roaches, ants, flies. But I was starving. I couldn't live there since it was all men and some were perverts, Don Juan's, thieves etc. I lived in my car. I wanted to push the g/f off the pier by then. 800 miles away but I called her parents. Instantly they hated me and I "made her" gay. They came to get her though. I lied and said I would keep in touch. Now with only a car and no gas, I called dad. He sent me gas money to get home and they helped until I got a job there.
Poverty destroys your dignity, hope, self-esteem and your health. My "vet preference" status didn't matter even for a dishwasher job.
(LoveMyGal)
Initially when I read your story, I felt sorry for your experience, but then I noticed you could have tried a different approach to avoid most of the issues you encountered. (Employment) you could have worked at a temporary agency, some pay by the day or week. Or tried working at a fast-food restaurant, as a cashier or cook not waitress or telemarketing. (Housing) Unless you were evicted, that gave you at least “30 days rent free” during that time you could have taking my advice in my “employment” post above. Moreover, there are hotel apartments that rent by the week or you could have tried a “room by the week”, a nice alternative then sleeping in the streets. Most shelters that help women are church based, but you do not need to become religious. Did you look at these options? (You have a Car, but no Gas) Why didn’t you sell your car? I do not understand why you had a car with no gas money. If you sold the car, that would have allowed you money for rent or a greyhound ticket to back home. Unless your car is a dump, you easily could have received $1,000 for it on Craigslist. (Girlfriend doesn’t want to work) I’m not sure, why you allowed your girlfriend to remain rent free why you both ended up homeless. Maybe if you would have called her parents sooner, to come pick her up, you would have had more money to help yourself. In addition, I’m not attacking you personally, I just feel you could have made smarter choices.
I just came out to myself so I won't elaborate on what lesbian life is like. I've lived all over the country and know that there are areas where it is great to be gay and others where it sucks to be gay. It is very difficult to generalize the lesbian community in general. In the major cities of the Coastal West states (CA, OR and WA) being queer is accepted and celebrated in some circles. In the Southwestern states (UT, NV and AZ), being gay is like a coin flip, some places will accept it while others may expect you to 'cover' it up if you want to at least 'get by'. In the Southern states (TX, LA, MS, FL and GA), gays are vulnerable to homophobia. Some major cities in the South are more open minded, but you are kinda stuck in a queer ghetto if you want to keep your safe haven. Many of the queer districts in major cities are expensive. The Eastern states (NY, NJ and MA) are very open. Of course I have only been in the major cities in the East Coast. I can't speak for the Midwest, Rocky Mountain Region and Mid Atlantic. I have had Midwestern friends complain of homophobia. So you see America is a very divided country. These divisions can make the people who do not fit in a certain mold targets of discrimination.
Some of the posters on here are poor because they made poor choices and sadly, that's not a condition of being a lesbian. Some people on here feel like queers should stop feeling sorry for themselves and get real. Ha! Guess if you live in San Francisco! I agree that queers should not entertain thoughts of self-pity due to previous discrimination, but it is always important to remember so that when you have equal rights you never forget what you had to do to fight for it.