Getting Around

My gal and I were at a reading at bluestockings bookstore on the Lower East Side the other evening. The Reader that night is a friend and colleague, lost and found. Her new-ish girlfriend is another mutual friend, not real familiar, but we all know each other from “around.” Around… Read more »

March 2010

Wanda Sykes on Rosie Radio

What started as a respectful little chat between two high-profile female performers last week evolved into a discussion on the gay celebrity burden. Both Wanda Sykes and Rosie O’Donnell started out as standup comics, both married women, have children and have become spokeswomen for the gay community. When Wanda called… Read more »

March 2010

Very First, First Date

This weekend I had a first date with a girl I met online. We’d been talking for a bit, and I was excited to meet her, yet I was still horribly nervous. I know that I’m a big bad sex and dating blogger and I should be able to go… Read more »

March 2010

Kids and Pets

We’ve had a lot of pets, and they’re my doing. There would be no animals here if my wife was on her own; she couldn’t take care of them—she can’t suck algae water to save her life or pick up poop if she was paid for it; even remembering food… Read more »

March 2010

The Dark Side of the Wave

After a tsunami hits, the most damage is done by the dark side of the wave quickly receding back into the ocean depths, taking everything in its path with it. Past experiences have taught me that the same concept is true for floods of emotions. I once allowed my emotions… Read more »

March 2010

WETbar

Held hottest gay-owned and gay-operated bar in the East Bay, the Bench and Bar is the sexy backdrop for WETbar. This exciting and high energy Sunday afternoon party attracts women from all over the Bay from San Francisco to San Jose, up to Concord and Sacramento. Starting late enough for it truly to be a night out on the town but ending early enough so you can make it into work the next day. WETbar goes down every 1st Sunday at the NEW Bench and Bar in the always crackin’ Uptown area of Oakland… Read more »

February 2010
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