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Facebook Makes It Official
So the Playwright and I officially announced our relationship to the world—via Facebook. Yes, that’s right, we are “official” because we are connected through that monstrous social network Our relationship had matured to the point where it was obvious we were no longer... Comments: 2
Posted 06/23/09 @ 01:37 PM
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Not So Casual Dating
I am still dating the playwright. Some of our friends have already planned our wedding and, while she has ceased letting some of them know she has a girlfriend, yes we have officially become “gfs.” My straight male friend Malcolm predicted exactly that it would happen after the third... Comments: 0
Posted 06/03/09 @ 01:42 PM
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Casual Dating?
I had been dating a biracial woman, with a young daughter for a few weeks, maybe a month. Miss Thing wanted a relationship, I didn’t. It was awkward. I have to say the cultural divide was, although interesting, difficult to transverse. She was hot and very sure of herself. And sure about... Comments: 1
Posted 05/07/09 @ 12:29 PM
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Hot Butch Looking For Some Fun - w4w
40 something, in shape butch is looking for some femme fun this afternoon I'll strap it on, fuck you silly, and send you home. your pic will get mine The above is the ad I answered on Craigslist after my online butt fucking discussion companion disappeared. The hot butch turned out to be... Comments: 10
Posted 04/21/09 @ 11:53 AM
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A Meditation on the State of the Lesbian Hookup
I’ve been pondering the idea of the lesbian hookup for some time. Mostly because I cannot find a steady stream of lesbians interested in hookups (vs. monogamous relationships). And not for lack of trying. I do not flatter myself that I am someone every lesbian in NYC (and... Comments: 10
Posted 02/27/09 @ 03:28 PM
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Butt Bumping
Since my doc still had concerns about vaginal sex, I had the great idea that anal sex was the way to go. Since I like butt fucking I figured it was a way to get my rocks off and keep healing at the same time. I put an ad up on Craigslist with a headline that went something like “Lesbo... Comments: 2
Posted 02/19/09 @ 05:57 PM
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Lip’s Tips: Curve Personals Advice
Single ladies: consider this a Christmas present. A little something for you from Lipstick. Comments: 8
Posted 12/23/08 @ 01:37 PM
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A Sexy Redhead?
My doc was still ordering abstinence when I went out with a few mis-matches. Then I met a musician, a totally sexy and sultry redhead who was a bit ambivalent about the whole online dating thing. In fact, she was ambivalent about dating period because of a somewhat recent breakup and she faded... Comments: 2
Posted 12/12/08 @ 04:33 PM
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Bye Bye, Birdie
SO, my East Coast gal pal met my plane at Newark airport. And when I say she met my plane—she was on the gangway right in the doorway since she worked at the airport and held certain privileges there. We rushed through passport control and customs, grabbed my luggage and were suddenly in... Comments: 0
Posted 12/08/08 @ 03:27 PM
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The Summer of My English Bird
Ten days with a U.K. "pen pal." What would you do? Comments: 5
Posted 09/17/08 @ 02:26 PM
