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How My Ex-girlfriends Have Been My Biggest Teachers in Life

It’s easy to blame our exes for our heartache and relationship fails. But what happens if we examine our own role in past relationships? I discover 4 lessons I learned from the greatest teachers I’ve had in life – my ex-girlfriends.

5 Things I Learned from Having a Wild Summer

What happens when life doesn’t turn out the way you want it to? Here I share lessons from how I responded one summer after a period of heartbreak in what I refer to as my wild summer.

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The Jelly Green Giant

Tips for taming the jealousy monster.

I Learned 4 Things From Almost Drowning in Maui

What happens when you nearly drown on vacation? Well, you think about what you learned and realize it’s not all that different from dating, of course.

The Number One Habit that Changed my Dating Life

Why do boundaries matter in dating? How can we use them to help us be our best self?

5 Hours to a Blissful Partnership

Making hetero marital therapy theories work for us.

Craydar: Weeding Out the Cray-Cray from Other Lesbians in Dating

How do we know the difference between a woman who is cray-cray and one who has made mistakes in life?

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Chasing Lesbian Desire

Why we need to own our sex lives.