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When Queer Women Sleep with Straight Men

Sexually fluid field notes

Do You Have a Lesbian Love Addiction?

A new advice author can help you.

Girl Code Breaker

Is girl code a thing? After a friend violates a boundary in the worst way, I examine my own history in breaking girl code.

Girls Have the Softest Skin

A Parisian guide on being a lesbian and how to enjoy it.

Bottoms Up!

Cheers to Anal Sex for Lady Queers.

How My Ex-girlfriends Have Been My Biggest Teachers in Life

It’s easy to blame our exes for our heartache and relationship fails. But what happens if we examine our own role in past relationships? I discover 4 lessons I learned from the greatest teachers I’ve had in life – my ex-girlfriends.

5 Things I Learned from Having a Wild Summer

What happens when life doesn’t turn out the way you want it to? Here I share lessons from how I responded one summer after a period of heartbreak in what I refer to as my wild summer.

Ask The Expert

Relationship column

The Jelly Green Giant

Tips for taming the jealousy monster.

I Learned 4 Things From Almost Drowning in Maui

What happens when you nearly drown on vacation? Well, you think about what you learned and realize it’s not all that different from dating, of course.