No Bed Death Here
Stephanie Schroeder
“I’m still really interested in having sex with you,” I told my girlfriend very recently one morning after we had gone to bed early, dog-tired, sore from head to toe and one too many times turning away from each other in bed and slipping into a deep sleep. “I still want to have mad, steamy, hot sex with you—we can’t just keep sleeping next to each other and making the excuse of being tired from working all the time, even if we are.” Her face lit up—I think she had started to believe LBD was setting in. No way Jose. Been there, done that. I’m very interested in sex, thank you very much, and have no intention of letting it die in this relationship.
While there are many reasons to “put off” sex or save it for another time, I in no way believe that a pair of sexy, interesting, vibrant lesbians should ever, I repeat ever, let their sex life go downhill simply because they are tired. So, with that in mind, I went over to my girlfriend, who was sitting at my dining table and started kissing her. We went after it real good, tongues all the way down either other’s throats, pawing each other like we hadn’t seen each other for years and the wetness creeping, seeping into our respective underwear. I told her to fuck me and she ripped off my jeans and shoved her fingers inside me right there on the hard bench while I moaned and groaned and swore and pulled her hair and squeezed her tits. And then I took her over to my bed, strapped on a double dildo and pounded the living shit outta her—and me.
I love the double dildo—obviously it does twice the work for twice the fun. I get to fuck my girlfriend and be inside of her while the other end of the dildo is also inside of me and gets shoved in and out as my girlfriend fucks back
We ravished each other for a few hours and then we lie there together on my bed, on top of the blanket that serves as a sort of duvet or bedspread or whatever, hugging, all wet and sweaty with my entire apartment smelling like pussy. We were in holding each other really tight and promising each other we would never let weeks—or even a week—go by without fucking ever again.
And we haven’t!
Blogger Bio: Stephanie Schroeder is a dreamer, wanderer and writer based in Brooklyn, NY. She likes to exchange apartments with artists and other interesting folks from around the globe and travel in search of new friends and singular experiences. She makes purple a way of life and also fancies green, purple’s complementary color on the color wheel. (stephanieschroeder.com)
Reader Comments:
thats hott.
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more girls need to read this, cause its so true.
there should be no reason to stop having sex.
weather your tired or not, you need to remember your partner.
Can someone please tell my girlfriend about this? It's been almost a year! LBD is definitely here in our house! I've just learned to take care of myself!
Hey to the sister with year long LBD! I think you deserve a girlfriend who wants to be sexually active with you! Obviously people have different types of needs and arrangements in relationships, but if you are not having sex, how is you girlfriend different from you friends? I hope you can talk to her and work through this or work out something that is mutually satisfying to both of you! I don't want to see you in a "romantic partnership" where you are taking care of yourself solo!
Yes, to the sister with LBD after one year. I second the other poster's comment. If LBD has set in after only a year, it won't get better. You need to confront the situation, however you need not "confront" your girlfriend in a combative or angry way, but with love and compassion. This is after all the woman you love (I am guessing). Ask her about how she is feeling, what her reservations are and tell her about your own feelings, frustrations AND sexual attraction to and interest in her. Definitely suggest psychotherapy because there is obviously an issue or multiple issues about sexuality for her.
Keep us all posted!
One year? I can't even make it one week. And neither can my partner!
wow sister! you know how to live
That is crazy...people have LBD after 6 months ...? a year? Wow. I was in relationship for almost 20 years and did not have LBD. There were a few times over the years because of illness/injury or geography (traveling separately) when we went a couple months without sex...but if it had gone longer than that...one of us would speak up and get the ball rolling again. I say: if you aren't having sex, you're friends not lovers....and its time to get it back or move on.
I"m still a little shocked by that...why do people put up with that? sex is a vital part of any intimate relationship/partnership?