Dr. Frankie's Love Seat
Dr. Frankie Bashan
Love Advice

04/02/14

Love Advice

Advice from the Lesbian Love Doctor.

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Dr. Frankie's Love Seat

02/24/14

Dr. Frankie's Love Seat

Advice from the Lesbian Love Doctor

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Dr. Frankie.  I am a 38 year old single lesbian

01/27/14

Dr. Frankie. I am a 38 year old single lesbian

Dr. Frankie.   I am a 38 year old single lesbian. I am quite content being single, and it seems other people are more worried about me finding a special someone than I am.  In the past ten years I can count on one hand the women I have been 'interested' in. That would be two. I was somewhat smitten with both of them, we became friends but both were in relationships so nothing ever progressed with me. We remain friends and I am thankful for their friendship. My question is, should I be worried by the fact that I am rarely attracted to women and don't actively look to meet anyone? As I said at the start I am perfectly happy but my friends seem to think I should be trying to find a relationship.     Dear Feeling...

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Dr Frankie   I entered my first lesbian relationship about four months ago

12/25/13

Dr Frankie I entered my first lesbian relationship about four months ago

Hi Dr Frankie   I entered my first lesbian relationship about four months ago.  I care a lot about my girlfriend and I enjoy all the time I spend with her…but recently I've noticed some new feelings.  I’d like some advice on how to control and avoid them, because I foresee them being dangerous to our relationship.   Girls can be naturally insecure and jealous, and I've noticed I've started feeling threatened because I consider my girlfriend to be much more attractive than I am. (In the same way that other girls may be jealous of celebrities or girls they deem more attractive/smart/funny than themselves, I am noticing these feelings towards my own girlfriend.)   It's bizarre because even with friends etc, I...

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Dear Dr. Frankie, How do I tell my friends to GROW UP!

09/17/13

Dear Dr. Frankie, How do I tell my friends to GROW UP!

Dear Dr. Frankie, Can you please help me understand why so many women in our community resort to juvenile tactics when a relationship ends? Once we reach a certain age we should see how petty this behavior makes us look. I have several friends who rely on passive/aggressive behavior to resolve conflict… I have two friends over the age of 50, who recently broke up with their girlfriends. They go out of their way to do things or make comments on their Facebook pages to belittle the other. Why can’t they just move on already? They kiss their exes in front of each other, which resulted in a fight at a party (and one was kicked out). Then there was the dividing of the Facebook friends, which I refused to do. My friends were quite disappointed when I refused and stayed...

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